I lied to my boyfriend without realizing it. It was nothing major, but it’s killing me. He asked who I was with so I told him my best friend. I didn’t mention that we were also with her boyfriend. The next day my boyfriend found out from some pictures online and was really upset. I’m scared he’ll never trust me again.
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I work with this lady that drives me nuts. She says things without thinking and always seems to mess everything up. Money has gone missing and we all think it was her who took it but can’t prove it. When there is something to do outside the “office” she takes off to do it and doesn’t come back for hours. She will stand up in the middle of a meeting and leave the room without saying anything to anyone. Just stands up and leaves the room!! When I walk into a room and she is there it just pisses me off. I can’t stand even hearing her name anymore. Yesterday, she pissed me off just a little too much this time and I had enough of all the crap she has been pulling to this point. So, when I was talking with one of my other co-workers and told a lie about her. Not just a little white lie a big lie. Something that could get her fired. I said that I was told by someone else that she does drugs. And not just simple drugs (dope) but hard core drugs (coke). I said that I know someone who saw her at a party and she was strung out so bad that they couldn’t believe that it was her. In a way I feel bad but then again she has been driving me nuts since I started this position and I have just had enough of her. She seems to get away with murder and no one will do anything about it. So why not push it so maybe she will be fired or at the very least moved to a different office.
I met my husband after I had an affair on Ashley Madison and cheated on my then boyfriend. I left my boyfriend in Prince Rupert and moved in with this guy in Victoria and eventually we got married. Before getting married both husband and I decided we wanted kids. We had dreams and chatted a lot about it. A few months after our wedding, I told my husband that I was ready to start a family, but he asked me to wait a few more years, as he was going to school and had yet to start a career. I was 3 years older than him. I was very disappointed when he asked to wait, and few months later I told him that I couldn’t wait, that I wanted to have a baby now. He asked me to wait few more years! I had no choice as I didn’t want to “force” him into this. For two years, I thought about it deeply and seriously, and decided that I didn’t want kids after all. I told him that I was never going to have kids that I had changed my mind, and he was totally shocked He didn’t expect this from me. We, of course, had a fight over it. He says that I have misled him and he wouldn’t have married me if I had told him that I never wanted children. We still stayed together because of our love for each other. He finished his school, found a great career, and he is ready to have a family, but not me. We are not fighting all the time about starting a family. I’m getting close to 40 and I still have not changed my mind. For some reasons, I am very happy about my decision. I should feel bad that I lied to get married to him but still I don’t feel bad.
After being on Plenty of Fish for a while and hearing about different experiences from other people, it’s clear to me most women in Prince George, have priced themselves out of their own market. The women on there are nothing but pathetic low class, shallow complete waste of time. They are attention seeking, drama queens who have multiple profiles, lie about their career, education, and weight so on. Their expectations are such that, the only option they are left with is dating, regardless what they say they want. Countless time I have met women from the site just to find out their lies. It’s just unbelievable. I know guys are out there who are just looking get a cheap lay but girls are one step ahead in that game, I think, on POF, especially in Prince George.
The only conclusion is women on POF are generally searching for a playmate at best. They left no other options open. But you cannot say that up front to them (yet they want you to be HONEST!!) that you are, as a guy, looking for a playmate. If you are this honest, you will be labeled as a creep. Talk about double standard! If that’s not true, the only other thing they could be doing is playing the “man lottery.” Putting up a profile just to see what they can catch and if the guy is a well above average catch for them they will respond or create another profile pretending to be someone else. Essentially they are just wasting a lot of guy’s time. They want guys to be honest but it’s OK for girl’s to be dishonest. I met 7+ women from the site in Prince George and Quesnel, while I was active there. All of them matched their pictures closely, but the self description, self perception was significantly off. If you want to spend money dating women you have little wish to be in a relationship with, Plenty of Fish is the place for you. In general, everyone on POF has low self-esteem and they will try to make themselves better by bringing down a guy or two. This site selects few con artist women to drop bait for honest men. We do not have to look for these internet women. Internet women who are suffering from the lack of self-esteem and place a photo to see how many desperate men will respond, then, it will be good for her ego. I have heard people having better luck in relationships or affairs or whatever that they are looking for from Ashley Madison and Meet Locals than POF.
Now that my ranting is done I do have to say, it’s NOT ALL bad. I did meet some interesting women. But I do that all the time without paying for the privilege.
My secret is that I may be divorcing my husband to be with guy I am having affair with. I have been in a relationship for over 3 years and been married with the same guy for over 7 years. My secret is that I am not feeling the love for my husband anymore.
I grew up in Mackenzie but moved to Quesnel with my husband. A friend and I had an affair a couple years ago. It was supposed to be sex only when my husband was out of town. No feelings or anything. Not long after I confessed that I was growing feelings for him. At first he wanted to keep it with no strings, and then he said he wanted me for himself and that he was growing feelings for me too. We tried to stay friends because I am still married, but lately he’s wanted me to come visit him in Prince George. He also suggested I divorce my husband and go stay with him in Prince George or move to somewhere else with him. My husband and I are on shaky grounds even after several years together. My friend has always treated me well and never made me cry. My husband goes out of his way to cause me pain. I’ve always loved them both, but I’m starting to fall out of love with my husband. My husband doesnt know any of it yet, I just pretend that everything is ok even after he treats me badly. I know I deserve better than my husband but I feel like a dirty whore somedays. I dont regret it at all though. We don’t have any children together so it may be easier to cut my losses but I don’t know if my friend will commit to me or not but I love the intimacy we have together.