I have been married to the same wonderful lady for 17 years now. We have one son who is turning 15 soon. I have the life everyone wants. I have a large house in the best neighbourhood, I have a new truck, my wife has a new car, and I have all the toys a guy could want (quads, sleds, etc).

But life is not always what it seems!!

I have been on several dating websites for a few years now. I usually say that my marital status as either single or separated. I tell the ladies I meet that my wife and I are no longer together, however, we do live in the same house. I tell them that she is terminally ill and this is the only reason we still live in the same house. We have agreed to stay together so my son can be with her during her last few months. But we are no longer together and she knows that I am with other women. The women seem to fall for it all the time. In the last two years, I have been with dozens of women. I usually even have a couple of women going at the same time. I explain that we can’t go to my place but that never seems to bother them. I get them to have sex with me in my truck, at their place or where ever we can. I even had one lady give me a bj when I took her out on my quad for a ride.

I truly have the best life anyone could ever have. I get the family life that I love and all the hot wild sex with tons of ladies and no one knows any differently. I would recommend that every guy does this. I have been having the best time of my life.

I had a friend with benefits who I had been with for just over a year. I knew nothing more would ever happen between us as we were cut from different types of fabrics. He was 7 years younger than I and into partying all the time. I was into school and trying to get my degree. But we would get together a few times a week to have sex.

Just near the end of our relationship he met a girl and started to date her so our encounters started to decrease and this made me mad. Not because he was seeing her but because we were having less sex. All I wanted from him was a good time.

Just as school was letting out for the year I told him that I was pregnant. I wasn’t really but I wanted him to panic and break up with his girlfriend so he would be miserable. I wanted him to feel something for me. I wanted to see what he would do. He broke up with his girlfriend and planned on moving in with me to make “everything” right. Just before he was about to move in I faked a miscarriage and told him that he didn’t need to move in now.

I have never told anyone that I faked a pregnancy or the miscarriage. He has moved on and so did I. I was just happy to know that I ruined his life for one summer out of his perfect life.

I found I was pregnant – the father was not my boyfriend, but someone I’d hooked up with at a party a while back. My boyfriend didn’t know I’d cheated, so when I told him I was pregnant, he assumed it was his. We got married right away; that was three years ago. My husband has no idea he’s raising someone else’s kid.

I have a secret that is really not mine to tell but it drives me nut that my friend will not tell the truth. I met my friend “Dave” about 7 years ago. We became friends right away. We laughed and had a great time together. He invited me over to his place the next night to have a drink with him. I did and we had a great time. I never did sleep with him but we have always talked about it and enjoy “playing” with each other.

When I first met him he told me he was single and at that point he was. However, he had already met a girl and knew he was going to marry her. He was taking a “year off” from dating and wanted to have fun sowing his seeds. I have never met her nor do I think I ever will. You see Dave and I still “play” once in awhile. He has now been with her for 6 years and they have been married for about 2 years. And they are now having the first baby.

My problem is that he is still running around on her and she has no clue that it is happening. His job takes him out of town all the time and he has a girl in each town he visits. I use to be one as we lived in different towns for a while but now I live in the same town so I have not gotten together with him. He always bugs me about going to his office and giving him a BJ but I never do even though I want to. I don’t want to be the other woman.

I want to phone up his wife and ask her if she is really that dumb. She needs to know. She is going to raise a family with this guy. I love him as a friend and nothing more. I don’t want to be her nor do I want her life. I guess I am just sick of all these married guys I know running around on their wives. I feel like I should phone up Dave’s wife and all the other wives I know and tell them what their husbands are doing behind their backs.