I have been a stripper for over 7 years now. I started when I was in graduate school because it was easy money and God knows I needed it. I moved for school from a small town up north known as Terrace. My family is poor so I had to do everything for myself. After graduate school with my degree in Health Science, I realized I was not going to find a job that paid me well. I also realized I won’t find a job that I enjoyed as much as dancing. Then I figured I might as well capitalize on being a stripper while I still had the body and looks. So, I started dancing professionally after graduation. Within six months I saved up enough money to put down on a house and yes the house is in Vancouver. I also helped out my parents with their finances. I paid off my student loans within 2 years. I also have managed to go on vacation with my folks. They don’t know that I strip. When I finally decided to “settle down” and get my career started, I chose to enter the health care profession. However, even once I began my new profession, I still continued to dance, because the money was so unbelievable. You dance for couple of nights and you are set for few weeks. I didn’t want to, nor saw the need to stop. I started traveling to Victoria to dance for more money, clubs were open late, you could work when you wanted, and less chance of running into someone I knew. I am now thinking of a serious relationship and want to settle down. I want to concentrate on my day job but I will confess, it is so hard to do, not just because of the money, but because I honestly enjoy it. I wish I could keep doing this for rest of my life, but loneliness is getting into me. I have everything I need, except a loving, caring family. That is what I want.
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I’ve been married for 8 years and been with my husband for over 13 years. We live in Burns Lake. He has a friend that’s staying with us for close to a month because he is from Sudbury and came here for work. Before the friend came, I have been having random sexual thoughts about other guys but now that there’s actually someone here, all my thoughts are projected on him. I am thinking of having an affair with him or any other random guys, but he is so close! If he can keep a secret I can have a no strings attached affair with him. Husband doesn’t need to know. I can’t help the fact that I feel something for someone else after all this time I have been married to my husband. We had a couple conversations here and there, nothing sexual, after all no one knows of my fantasy and he is my husband’s friend. Then yesterday I saw him staring at me differently, when he thinks I’m not looking. Since this, my sexual urges are getting uncontrollable. I have the willpower to not do anything with him but a tiny part of me want it so bad! I wish I knew exactly how he feels. If I knew he was feeling the same way, I would be having an affair right under my husband’s nose.
I am on Plenty of Fish site in Prince George to flirt, chat, talk dirty and reveal my inner sexual secrets to both men and women whom I know I will never meet. I am flirting with people through Plenty of Fish throughout Northern British Columbia such as I have a female bi-sexual friend in Prince Rupert, I have a married guy from Williams Lake, I have a couple from Burns Lake. Everyone thinks they are going to meet with me but in reality I know that will never happen. I know from past experience that I don’t like the people in real life that I attract when I’m completely open about whom I am. That’s probably why I’m still single.
I grew up in Burns Lake. I still feel about this secret and never told anyone. I still feel guilty about this. I was in elementary school and all the kids in my class were huddled together for story time. Everyone knows that story times are always fun. Unfortunately I was lactose intolerant but I had something made of cheese that day from a friend. So, I farted and it stank so badly. I was quick to blame this girl who sat nearby who has a hearing disability and everyone vacated the area where she sat. Needless to say, she had terrible in the class after that. She also had bad reputation in the entire school for something she didn’t do. I feel bad, but I don’t blame myself for being a funny little boy.
I have pretended for almost 6 years to be a friend with another woman because I secretly hated her. I really didn’t like anything about her. The only reason I am “friends” with her is because our daughters are on the same soccer team together Burns Lake and I want them to hang out because her daughter is a little better than mine. I feel like if my daughter can hang around the other girl this will decrease the competition between they and both of them can play in the same league. However, I have recently severed our “friendship” but she doesn’t know that I’ve secretly hated her for years because she is a bragging, brown nosing hypocrite. She still calls me or emails me but I never reply.