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Cheating on Facebook

Friday, September 12th, 2014

Is cheating on Facebook still cheating? According to my boyfriend and many other people out there, it is. I have my own story to tell on the subject. There was this guy who was simply breathtaking (and girlfriend taking I might add) on my friend’s list. This was a kid we’d all known in school but would never have taken a second look at, as he was just this skinny little thing back then. Who would have ever thought that he’d show up years later beautiful, buff and tatted up?

Well, everyone knows when they post pictures and status updates or other things on Facebook, and one person seems to be popping up with “likes” and comments more than others that there is something to it, especially if it is a member of the opposite sex! This is exactly what happened to me with this guy. Over time it went from posting on my statuses to private messaging me. This could not have come at a worse time in my life as my boyfriend and I were having problems. The problems were the result of being together for 5 years and being bored, or so I thought at the time.

In any case, I began to believe I was developing real feelings for this guy and we started talking more and more. I almost considered leaving my boyfriend for him on a couple of occasions. However, it wasn’t long before my boyfriend caught on and started getting suspicious. This was when it hit me that I was cheating, actually cheating. I may not have been physically cheating but I was emotionally cheating, and to some people that is even worse.

After the dust settled from the huge blow out we had over my Facebook partner in crime I realized what had happened. I was still angry with my boyfriend about a lie he had told me almost a year prior! The lie wasn’t even all that big but it had somehow destroyed my trust. My “relationship” with my Facebook friend was my way of getting even. It turns out cheating is cheating, whether it is done in person or on a social networking site. It also turns out that cheating on Facebook is a great way to get your boyfriend’s attention!

In the end, my partner in crime wound up running off with some girl (who was married) and disappearing shortly after I stopped talking to him. Unfortunately, that hasn’t stopped my boyfriend from looking over my shoulder whenever I am on Facebook, and it is a safe bet that he will be doing that for a long time to come. The moral to the story is that revenge is never a good thing, especially if you are taking it out on someone you truly love by cheating in some way.

Cheated on my husband in Quesnel

Saturday, April 19th, 2014

My secret is that I cheated on my husband with my best friend. It wasn’t planned, it just happened and now I am so lost. My husband cheated on me with someone he met on Facebook about 10 years ago. I wanted to leave but I was pregnant so I stuck it out. Eight years later I am standing here guilty of the very same thing I have hated him for all these years. I love my husband but since I cheated on him I feel like I don’t love him anymore. I am in love with the thought of marriage but nothing else. I feel more strongly towards my friend for the past few months. I can’t bring myself to leave my husband because of our children and the small town factor of Quesnel, British Columbia. I am don’t know what to do!

I am married but attracted to women

Monday, August 6th, 2012

I am a straight married 29 year old woman living in Fort St. John, but ever since I was in high school, I have been attracted to women. I don’t know why but the thought of me with a woman drives me crazy. I never told this to anyone, not even to my husband. I don’t want a romantic relationship just sex a woman would be hot. I love watching lesbian porn when my husband is out of the house. I want to find a woman to have sex with so badly. I have heard of sites like Ashley Madison is good places to look for affairs or finding what I am looking for. I don’t want to destroy my marriage though. On top of that Fort St. John is a very small place for anything like that to happen.

I know that if I want this dream to come true, I can make it happen. I just have to get up the nerve to let my husband know what I want. I am sure he would go for it, because what guy wouldn’t? But, I have to find a way to gently ease into it. And maybe if I find the right girl, I can make my fantasy come true. I would rather it just be me and another woman but if I have to let my husband watch us, I think it would be worth it.

I keep wondering if approaching my husband with this topic would make him angry, but it isn’t as if I want another man so I don’t see how it would. No matter what, I am going to find a way to have lesbian sex one day. I am to attracted to women not to make sure this happens for me. I am getting hot just thinking about being with another woman.

 

 

My night out of town

Saturday, February 6th, 2010

Last month I travel to Williams Lake, a town 3 hours away from Prince George, to see a man. Most people would say that there is nothing wrong with that. Well there is something wrong with it. There is a lot wrong with it. I left my two children at home alone for the night and no one knew where I was. I just wanted to have sex so bad that it didn’t matter that I was leaving the kids alone. I just wanted to be with someone. I wanted to feel someone next to my body. What makes this ever worse is that the man I went to see is married. Yep, I travelled 3 hours to have sex with a married man. His wife had no clue. He told her he was working that night but took the night off work and met me in a hotel. The night we spent together was so hot. I have never done anything like that before. Knowing that we were both being “bad” made it just that much more exciting. He was able to please me in ways I never knew before. I didn’t know what to expect but I got way more then I have ever had before. He continued to tell me I was so much better than his wife and he would not be able to go back to her after the night we had. When I close my eyes and think about it I become so turned on and want him again so badly. After our night of passion I have never spoken to him again. He has tried to phone me but I don’t answer. It was a perfect night but he has a wife and I am not willing to wreak that for him. Our one night will be all we will ever have.

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