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Posts Tagged ‘Victoria’

Married but have fantasy of an affair with another man

Sunday, October 16th, 2011

After reading all the confessions and secrets on this site, I finally have the courage to confess my own secret. I have been a happily married woman for the past three years, I have a very high sex drive and a satisfying sex life with my husband, but I secretly feel like I want more adventure in my sex life. I frequently have the urge to have sex with another man, just some random guy. I love sex, and would just like to know how it would be with another man. I have been with my husband for over 8 years (married for three years) and I am only 25 and I really would love to screw some random guy just to see what it was like, how it compared to my husband. If he were married, that would be even better! After reading all the experiences on this site about No Strings Attached, I am seriously considering trying something like that and having a secret onetime affair. The thought of it is driving me crazy with longing! I’m to afraid of being caught if I do it in Quesnel though because it’s such a small town but I’ve been fantasizing about traveling to different cities like Prince George, Williams Lake or even Vancouver, or Victoria. If I found someone I liked through a website, I’d make an excuse to go see him, but I don’t want to do anything in this Quesnel, it’s just too small. I am glad to have finally confessed my secret.

My husband is a looser, I want to divorce him

Saturday, April 30th, 2011

I am 27 year old female, living in Edmonton. I moved here with my husband after we got married, from Victoria. I married him against my father’s advice. He was right. I have two beautiful children with my husband but I wish he was not their father. I am stuck in a marriage with a guy who is unable to grow up, who can’t support himself much less his family, and I left all my friends and family for him. I always make excuses for him and for myself for being with him. I blame myself for this. Now I am thinking I need help to get away and leave him. I can’t afford to leave or divorce him because of my children and I can’t afford to stay because of myself. I feel like I am trapped in this relationship. My dad was right and I wish I listened to him. My dad told me he’s a looser and he is!

Lied to my husband saying I wanted children

Monday, March 21st, 2011

I met my husband after I had an affair on Ashley Madison and cheated on my then boyfriend. I left my boyfriend in Prince Rupert and moved in with this guy in Victoria and eventually we got married. Before getting married both husband and I decided we wanted kids. We had dreams and chatted a lot about it. A few months after our wedding, I told my husband that I was ready to start a family, but he asked me to wait a few more years, as he was going to school and had yet to start a career. I was 3 years older than him. I was very disappointed when he asked to wait, and few months later I told him that I couldn’t wait, that I wanted to have a baby now. He asked me to wait few more years! I had no choice as I didn’t want to “force” him into this. For two years, I thought about it deeply and seriously, and decided that I didn’t want kids after all. I told him that I was never going to have kids that I had changed my mind, and he was totally shocked He didn’t expect this from me. We, of course, had a fight over it. He says that I have misled him and he wouldn’t have married me if I had told him that I never wanted children. We still stayed together because of our love for each other. He finished his school, found a great career, and he is ready to have a family, but not me. We are not fighting all the time about starting a family. I’m getting close to 40 and I still have not changed my mind. For some reasons, I am very happy about my decision. I should feel bad that I lied to get married to him but still I don’t feel bad.

I don’t regret that I was an escort

Saturday, January 29th, 2011

I was an escort while I went to University of British Columbia for about 2 years. I used to travel to Victoria, Kelowna, Kamloops, and Nanaimo for escorting. I loved it. Aside from the money, which was great, I enjoyed the process of inventing and reinventing myself with each client I would have encounter with. I could be whatever I wanted to be or do whatever I pleased to do. I had no problems with any requests. I worked for a nice woman who ran an agency with her boyfriend and always kept good track of our appointments, so things were relatively safe and secure. I had a couple of run-ins with bad dates, but the vast majority of the clients were just looking for a warm body and someone to listen to them. Now I moved back to Prince George and after seeing all the stories on this site, I have to say, I don’t regret that I was an escort, and I would do it again if I am single again because my husband is a church going religious person and I don’t think he will understand my sense of “discovery.”

Rant of another guy about Plenty of Fish (POF) in Prince George

Friday, December 31st, 2010

This is not a secret but just another rant about Plenty of Fish (POF) in general. I am a single 40-year old guy. I’m not Brad Pitt; but I’m not bad-looking either, and I’m in great shape for my age. I am successful both professionally and educationally. I joined POF in Prince George hoping to find my princess. I emailed over 30 women who in my age/looks range. I widen my search even to Fort St. John up north and all the way to Vancouver, Victoria down south and in between. I wasn’t a middle-aged desperate guy emailing 21-year-old supermodels. I was emailing women who should have been age/appearance compatible. Or who I thought might be interested in settling down after gaining certain amount of life experience that comes with age! Oh god was I ever wrong. I got absolutely *zero* responses. Everyone read and deleted the emails. My jaws dropped. My emails were at least 100 words long and it was not like “hey babe want to get laid?” or “Hey want to marry me?” type emails. So I went on searching online to see what I was doing wrong and found that its like a game for lonely desperate women who are just out to waste everyones time. I find that I have a lot better luck meeting women at the bookstore or at the gym. POF is just a waste of time. I mean, after all, gentlemen, what exactly is the “end game” on POF? Is it a coffee date on the other side of town with an overweight middle-aged woman who has three kids and has no education or knows only how to put a guy down just to glorify their own ego? Doesn’t really matter how real you are, you just can’t find a decent girl unless they have at least a college degree, even so, I have found, that gives them the false sense of achievement which makes them very arrogant.

The reason I am ranting about this is because of my last one which took the cake and made me delete my profile. I came across a profile from Prince George who was 40 years old that had the same birth date as me and gave a synopsis of the type of person born on that day is. I am very intrigued at this point thinking what a great profile! She also said she has a graduate degree. I sent her a message saying that I was born on the same day and this sounded very accurate, I thanked her for posting it and wished her a Happy Holiday Season. The result? You got it, read and deleted, not even freaking happy holidays back or a thanks or anything. She has kids who are all grown up (as per her profile), so why the hell is this self-ego? No idea. I guess when the POF started guys found this a convenient way to get laid. As a result all the girls are kind of hesitant. At the same time, ladies, not all guys are bad!

Guys who are looking to have an affair, try Ashley Madison. You will have better luck. Leave the POF to those who are looking for some serious relationships.