My wife and I have been married for ten years. She’s 35 and I’m 38. I thought or marriage was a good marriage but I was wrong. She seemed happy, she always spent time with me and told me she loved me all the time. Our sex life was active and she seemed to want it as bad as I did.

It all happened late one night when I was at work. I work shift work for a utility company so I’m away from home seven nights a month. She usually calls me at work when she goes to bed but this night she text me. I called her but she didn’t answer. She text me again and said sorry she didn’t answer she was really tired and falling asleep. I had that gut feeling something was wrong so I asked my boss if I could go home because I wasn’t feeling well. He told me I could leave and made a joke to me about I better call my wife to tell her I’m coming home early so I don’t walk in on her and Sancho. it’s a joke we tell everyone that goes home early in night shifts.

As I got close to my house I noticed the living room light was still on. I got curious because she said she was going to bed. I ended up parking my truck in the driveway of a couple houses down from mine that no one lived at. I walked over to my house and around to the back yard. I couldn’t see inside the house because all the blinds were closed. I could hear the tv and I could also hear a guys voice. I had to get inside to see what was going on. shortly after the living room lights shut off and my bedroom lights came on. now was my chance to get in the house. I unlocked the back door and walked in quietly. I tip toed down the hallway and my bedroom door was closed. I could hear my wife making grunting noises and then I heard a guys voice telling her to ride it, ride it hard. I stayed outside the door until they finished and then I left backto my truck. I ended up sleeping in my truck until the morning. I woke up and drove my truck to my house, got oout and went inside. my wife was laying in bed when I walked into the bedroom. I woke her up and asked how her night went and she said it was ok. Then I asked her if she enjoyed fucking her boyfriend while she thought I was at work. She sat up in bed and looked at me and asked what I meant about that and what Ann I talking about. I told her I heardand saw what she did last night. She started crying and saying she was sorry. She ended up telling me it was a guy from her work and that she’s been seeing him now for about six months. I asked her if she loved him and she said she thinks so. so I packed my stuff and now I’ve been living in a hotel room for a week. I’ve driven past my house a few times but every time I drive by there is a unknown car in the driveway. I figure it’s that guys car. he can have her. I’m done with her after I caught her cheating.

I was on a training trip with work and some of my co workers were attractive females. Being away, I was getting a little horny and noticed my team mate was very friendly towards me. I gave her a back massage one night – including her removing her top and my rubbing her back. This drove me crazy.

One afternoon she was in a very short tight pair of shorts and now I couldn’t take it anymore. We were alone and her room mate was nowhere to be found. I started by grabbing her ass and she just laughed. It was on! I went for her crotch and she moved away – after a few seconds.

We started making out and taking turns looking through the peephole of the room to see if anyone was coming. I lifted her shirt and bra in one swift move and sucked on her hard nipple and she gasped. Then I started to finger her and it was hard in those shorts. She grabbed my hard on through my shorts. I moved my arms out of the way and she got the picture and stroked my hard shaft in my pants.

I asked, “Would you be offended if I asked you to go down?” She paused a second and said, “No.” I almost fell over. She was a pro – bent over at the waist, pulled out my cock and started jerking furiously and when I felt her warm mouth I jazzed right away. To my shock she starting breathing hard through her nose and kept sucking and swallowing every drop. She stood up and gave me a smile and said, “Stress buster.” It was the best blowjob ever.

The rest of our training included numerous mutual orgasms and blowjobs.

My secret is that im not happy with our sex life (me and my girlfriend) ever since weve had sex I have always had to finish myself off after she leaves.

I care about her alot and i know i’ll probly never find another girl like her but everytime we do it she leaves me unsatisfied. im not proud to say this but i have cheated on her before and i have came clean about it, what i did was mutual between me and the other girl and it was a no strings attatched fling. i absolutely do not have feelings for those woman but i wish my gf could finish me like those other woman have.

When I cheated i felt degrading and aweful as i had broken my promise to my gf but there are days when i just cant take it and need a woman who knows how to please a man right.

My secret is I am in an unsatisfying relationship with a great girl who i doont wana leave or cheat on. i need some advice on what i should do cuz im gettin tired of feeling that my needs arent being met

btw we have talked about this problem and it upsets her but with our schedules its hard to do anything

I have been married for a few years, but but been with my husband for a good few years, in the beginning we were like fire and ice, hot and steamy, he found out i love women, so i thought that would be a erotic moment, so we tried to explore it with other women, what a joke, the women he picked were no tbi, soon as he began to fuck them they would ignore me, and basically i got nothing out out of it, my husband would not even hardly touch me either, it was just another excide for him to fuck other women, we tried it a few times, and well has never worked out the way it should of, a three way not a two way, so i got oissed off and said to hell with this, and so we stopped doing it, the women were not true bi girls, and i am not going to get pushed out of the way so he can get fucked, excuse me?!!! and his lame statement back pissed me off more…..
After we stopped trying to do the bi thing, our sex life took a total dive, what a fucking insult, had a few good fuck sessions i guess, but it declined and declined more and more, he was not interested, not in the mood so on and on, he works out of town a lot as well, gone for long periods of time, home for short periods of time, so it is hard and lonely for me, so miss being touched, so miss him not fucking me any more, when he does get home, and if we do fuck, it is like, that was sex? a quick few minutes for him to get off and that is it, nothing like we were, so it is pissing me off……

He even admits our sex life is bad but does nothing to improve it what so ever, just keeps letting it get worse and worse. I think and feel he cheats on me out of town when he works, he says he never has time for that, get real i am not totally stupid here!! he comes home after being gone for so long and hardly has any sexual interest in me?! and on the weekend, had a few days off, hung out with his buddy, okay fine, they partied it up, went to a strip joint, and well he got hammered up, and managed to get some stripper’s panties, he said he asked for them from her to play a joke an a friend, yeah right okay?!!! totally do not believe that, know how he is when he is drunk, he has to be the man of all men when he is drunk especially when he is around women, has to try and be better than anyone else, so he tells me this….I got a little poissed off, due to what is happening in our marriage, for sure, do not trust him worth the shit!! he has cheated on his other wives and girlfriends in the past, and has made comments i would never know he is cheating out of town anyways, so yeah, I trust that this stripper whore just gave him the panties when he asked for them, and right after he told me that, (being he was totally hammered) he said getting a blow job is not cheating and laughing….really?!!!!

He has not touched me in so long, or fucked me good in so long, getting tired of getting my self off, while he is out there getting fucked by whores……my mind leads to wanting to get laid, it makes me ownder off in thought of having an affair of my own, why not he is?! i have not been touched in so damn long, miss human contact!! my husband will not ttouch me, so what the fuck here?!!!! the rejection hurts so deep!!
But i have caught my self wondering off in thought about having an affair! cannot believe that, I have never cheated on any of my partners before!! i have never had the thought to even want to cheat on my husband before ever either!! he was always so sexy and alive to me, but lately it is depressing becuase i cannot get him to touch me, and he rejects me constantly, but certainly have no damn idea to even how to have an affair?!!! or who with or how any of that works if I wanted to, and do not want it coming back to bite me in the ass either!! my husband gets all made and insecure when another man even looks at me, he is insecure about his man hood, he is not that big according to him, so the thought of another man being near me enrages him, but it is okay for him to go out and get panties off some stripper and fuck around with her?! double standards!! i just want to get fucked, not have a relationship or anything, like he does, gets laid out of town, so I have been thinking about it, it drives me nuts at times!! amazing what happens when the sex part in a marriage goes away, and what it does to a person!! how the human contact drives a person…..i am very confused as how i am feeling!!!

I have had sex with so many men since I have been married. I have been paid to have sex, I have had sex with older men, younger men, etc. I love to have sex and unfortunately my husband has a small cock that cannot satisfy. I know that he cheats on me and thats ok, I still love him dearly! I just wish maybe the two of us could get freaky together. He could have his other woman there and I could have a guy, and the four of us could party. I really need a bigger cock and that’s one reason I cheat and have sex behind his back. I sometimes think of approaching him with the idea of buying a huge dildo and letting him shove that in my pussy while he fucks me in the ass with his small cock.

I know I could handle his cock in my ass and this way we would both get pleasure. He would get pleasure and get to cum, and I would have the huge cock I so desire. I have to think of a way to make this work because cheating on my husband is not the right thing to do. If only things were different and he was not so boring then maybe I would not be inclined to cheat on him as much. But, I love sex too much to settle for him and his small cock for the rest of my life.