Why did I do this to myself by marrying the wrong guy? I hate my husband! He has cheated more than three times on me, and I can’t leave. He confessed once, but I pretend like I don’t know of the other two. I am a stay at home mom of three kids, and I don’t have any work experience or vehicles. He works all hours of the day, and I stay with the kids 24/7. We don’t have any family that lives in the same town or state, so I never get a break or time to myself. I HATE MY LIFE. I gained 30lbs since my husband started being unfaithful. I try to make myself feel better by eating, and it is only making feel worse. Is there any way out of this vicious cycle? Don’t worry; I don’t plan on killing myself. I wish I had options.

I’m a married 41 yr old guy who seems to be with the wrong woman and have known this for years. She has become a drunk and has no care for the household and our daughter who has lost all respect for her as well. She has made our home a very depressing place to be. I have found myself seeking other women/girlfriend to feel that warmth of a woman again. Our daughter doesn’t want to live there any longer if she is here. And I seem to stay away more at our lake house to be apart from that seen but hate to be without my daughter. I guess what I’m wondering it must be time to end this terrible marriage. At the beginning of the year, I’ll ask her to leave this house so my daughter and I can live in a better environment with less stress. She’ll probably pull the suicide card out again as she tried a couple of years ago with my daughter there. More drama !!! I wish she would disappear so my daughter and I can move on and I can find someone to love while I still have a little youth left in me. Any thoughts or advice is welcome.