My wife and I have been married for 3 years now and living in Vanderhoof, British Columbia. I love her dearly and I would hate for our relationship to end. But we are no longer having sex. It has been over a year since we last did it. We use to have sex 2-3 times a day when we first met and even after we got married we were having sex all the time. I’m not sure what happened but all of a sudden we stopped having sex. However, we are both still very sexual people. She masturbates every day and so do I but nothing together.

About 6 months ago we were redoing the bathroom and I installed a camera in there. When my wife masturbates she usually does it in the shower; never in front of me. It is such a turn on for me but she won’t do it. She has no clue that I have put one in there. I have it connected to the fan so that when the fan is turned on the camera comes on. I then turn around and watch the video tape of her while I’m masturbating.

I know that if she ever found out that I was recording her, she would flip out on me and that would be the end of our marriage. But I miss being with her so much that I didn’t know what else to do. She will not have sex with me so what else am I to do.