I’ve been married for 8 years and been with my husband for over 13 years. We live in Burns Lake. He has a friend that’s staying with us for close to a month because he is from Sudbury and came here for work. Before the friend came, I have been having random sexual thoughts about other guys but now that there’s actually someone here, all my thoughts are projected on him. I am thinking of having an affair with him or any other random guys, but he is so close! If he can keep a secret I can have a no strings attached affair with him. Husband doesn’t need to know. I can’t help the fact that I feel something for someone else after all this time I have been married to my husband. We had a couple conversations here and there, nothing sexual, after all no one knows of my fantasy and he is my husband’s friend. Then yesterday I saw him staring at me differently, when he thinks I’m not looking. Since this, my sexual urges are getting uncontrollable. I have the willpower to not do anything with him but a tiny part of me want it so bad! I wish I knew exactly how he feels. If I knew he was feeling the same way, I would be having an affair right under my husband’s nose.