My secret is that I regret not having children when I was younger. I was always so focused on my career that I lost focus on life. I grew up in Prince George, then moved to Victoria, then came back to Lillooet, and now in Prince George again. My career was more important, no man was ever right for me? Or I couldn’t see myself raising a family with them. Now on lonely evenings I reflect on my life. I don’t know why I waited to get this old and think about being a mother. I know I could adopt, but I want to experience pregnancy and childbirth! My husband does not want any more children because he has 2 from a previous relationship who are all grown up. He wants us to just relax and just enjoy the peace and quietness of the house and life! I just wonder from what noise I should be escaping from. I have never had the crying baby, or a loud toddler. I will be 48 soon I regret waiting for no good reason to have children of my own. I regret I will never have some grandchildren of my own. I regret I would never go out to the Fort George Park with my grandchildren. I regret I will never drive them to school or go to their school plays. Now it is too late.

My secret is that my girlfriend is an escort in Victoria. We are massively in debt and the job market is horrible. We both had no luck finding jobs. She has her master’s from the University of Northern British Columbia and I have my Masters degree from the University of Victoria. We had good jobs but everything went downhill since the economic meltdown. We were getting calls from debt collectors and repo companies. So we made the family decision to have her escort. We made a profile first on Plenty of Fish because it was free. She met with few people right away and each session was about $600 per hour plus tips. Then we created another profile on fling.com. She is now making over $2000 per day for 3 or 4 hours of work. Everything is done as safely as possible and her rate is high enough to avoid undesirables. Her clients are mainly business people who are visiting Victoria and some couples. I can’t say I’m 100% pleased, but at this rate, we’ll be debt free in 6 months, rather than filing bankruptcy. I feel bad to put my girlfriend through this. I feel terrible she is doing this for us. No one knows about any of it. I was dying to get this story out. Thank god I found this site.