I have met recently met a guy on plenty of fish (pof) in Prince George. It was going very well for first few weeks. I thought sex was great and we were doing amazing in bed but all of a sudden now he wants to be a swinger and swap partners. We met a couple on ashleymadison and I tried it for the first time this weekend with him to please him and found it to be very exciting, but I was very nervous. After talking to him about the nervousness my new guy seems to feel that I should have sex with a man first while he watches. It will apparently help me deal with the swapping a little better. I am concerned that I may be going into this too fast, but on the other hand I may enjoy it. I love sex and I love sexual adventures but doing this for a guy from a dating site so fast seems kind of scary and fun at the same time. I am kind of lost. I talked to few friends of mine who said they have had sex with other guys while their partners watched and it’s a turn on for them and for their partners. I never thought I would consider becoming a swinger!

This is still a fantasy.  My girlfriend and I are both young, students at the University of Northern British Columbia and have been together for just over two years. About one year ago I admitted that it is a huge turn-on for me to think about watching the person I love be with someone else (guy or girl). It’s not about submission or humiliation but the thought that gets me really turned on. So far, I think, it’s about seeing her and being with her sexually after she has been with someone else. I think it will give me the feeling the she is a whole new girl after she has been with another guy or a girl. I think my fantasy is called cuckold experience?

She has entertained my sexual desires from time to time by emailing stories about previous guys she’s fucked. It really got me going and wanting her more and more… She has also told me about a story while we were in bed. We talk about going out to the bar and checking out some girls for the “consideration” of a threesome… I would like to know some real life experiences with getting your girlfriend/wife/partner to actually go through with such an experience. Especially in Prince George. It’s really hard to find likeminded people in here. But there has to be some couples who had done something like this or had cuckold experience. I’d love to see her with another girl but seeing her with another guy, I feel, would be much more lasting and intense as an experience. How would we go about finding a decent, clean and respectful guy for her to have sex with without the feelings involved? One that may be alright with me either watching or receiving a recordings or pictures of the act?

Last weekend I went to a local swingers party in Prince George. It’s a small town so swingers parties are very discrete and you only get invited if the host knows you. In this group everybody knows everybody and sometimes host invites new people to join. I had met this one couple at the New Year’s Eve party who came to the swinger party as well. Party was at a private house in Prince George. My date (who is also my friends with benefits) really liked the woman and I also liked the man so we talked that night. Well Saturday him and I couldn’t keep our hands off each other so I asked if he wanted to go back to the room upstairs. Of course the answer was yes. We went upstairs, locked the door and started kissing and I thought he was reaching down to lift my skirt, but no he grabbed me picked me up and threw me on the bed. I knew right then this was going to be a fun evening and I was right, the sex was great. I never cum through oral sex but he had talented tongue and I came very hard on his face. Then I returned the favor by giving him a handjob and oral too. During the blowjob I almost gagged trying to take his entire cock in my mouth. Then he fucked me for, what it seemed like, ages. After couple of hours when we got back to the main room we both noticed that “friends with benefit” I came with and the woman he came with were gone. We looked at each other, smiled, and said that we hoped they are having as much fun as we did. Later in the night we played naked Twister. Everyone had a good time including my “friends with benefit” and I am looking forward to another swingers party soon.

I must admit, my sexual desires probably started after being assaulted at a very young age. Ever since then I have explored myself in more ways than one. But I never lost my virginity until I was 15 years old, I am ashamed to say that I used a good friend of mine and gave him my virginity. Not having the best life in school, being teased and tormented throughout the years, being told I would die alone, a virgin, no one around me to care about me or anyone who would even cry at my death… Being the sky child I was, I believed it. So I took my childhood friend to my house before lunch at school, and told him to fuck me. I knew he would since I knew he has had a crush on me for the longest time. He still does and still wants to be with me, even though he is in a great relationship with 3 adorable children.

But I think in the few sexual relationships I have had, there has only been one guy who has ever really pleasured me, and because of that I have major feelings for him that I just cant get rid of. And trust me, I have tried. We talk just about every day and we goof around a lot. Not that his girlfriend knows.

With my unsatisfying sexual life though… Whenever I am out somewhere I people watch. I think to myself, is that someone I’d fuck? I fantasize about the things they could do to me, seeing a group of nice looking guys, my fantasies cause me to ruin a couple pairs of panties. The only thing is, I am still a shy person, I felt I was never really allowed to socialize during my school years, make many friends, hang out with friends, join school or after school clubs, since my parents shared custody of me. I lived with my mom all of my childhood life and I would visit my dads on weekends. Taking away any time I would have had to go to events or parties. I feel sexually unsatisfied.

He invited me to meet him at the coffee shop downtown for lunch. Although there were few people there today, I knew we still had to be careful. We could sit and eat and talk and let our imaginations go, but we could not touch, just in case someone he knew was near and saw us. It’s a business lunch is what he would say. I found a table in the corner, affording us a little more privacy. He walked in moments later and joined me. I knew we looked out of place sitting together, me a short, curvy white girl in a summer dress and him, a tall, thin black man in a business suit. Im not sure what kind of business meeting we could be having, but that was the excuse…

We sat across from each other, our eyes undressing one another. I recall we ate and chatted, but I know our minds were elsewhere. His eyes kept leaving my face and ending up on my large, tan breasts. He would lick his lips and begin to breathe heavily, as though he was being tortured. I ventured far enough to take my heels off and sneak my toe along the inside of his long leg, up to his thigh. I felt myself get wet as I imagined what was higher up. We finished our lunch and he walked me to my car. Seeing the streets were void of any others he found his voice and as we turned to say goodbye to each other he instead whispered “I want to fuck your pussy so hard right now. My cock is aching to be inside you E”.

Without a word he climbed in the car beside me and I drove away. Before we were out of the parking lot his lips were on my neck and his fingers were pulling my panties aside. He began whispering French in my ear, which he knew drove me wild. I concentrated on the road, but was glad the traffic was light as I swerved over the line a few times. We couldn’t go to either one of our homes so I drove onto the highway and headed west, out of town. He unzipped his pants and pulled his hard cock out for me to see. I was surprised I could grasp him with one hand and drive with the other. The first gravel road I saw I pulled over and stopped the car.

I quickly leaned over and pulled his large, swollen cock into my mouth, almost gagging as he pushed it down my throat. “You like sucking my big, black cock don’t you?” “You want me to cum all over your sweet lips?” His words made me suck even harder which made him grind his teeth and cry out in what sounded like pain but I knew was pleasure. He pulled my dress up and began lightly slapping my ass. I focused on his breathing and right before he was about to cum I stopped sucking. I allowed him to calm down for a few moments before I pulled him into the backseat with me.

His legs were cramped in the back but I fit nicely on his lap. He lifted my dress and I held his cock as I lowered myself onto it. I could feel every inch of him sliding into me, filling me up like no other had before. With no reason, or time, to take things slow, I began riding him fast and hard. “You’re a dirty bitch who loves cock” “Your bad, you deserve this” he spoke as he began first spanking my ass, then gently slapping my face. I pulled my dress down and allowed my tits to bounce as I went up and down on his cock. “Hit me” I cried, so he hit me again, harder this time. “You fucking bitch” he whispered to me. Each time his hand touched my face I felt my body spasm.

I couldn’t control myself anymore and as an orgasm ripped through my body I slapped him hard across the face. He glared at me and grasp onto me tighter. As my orgasm drifted away he pulled me faster and harder, up and down on his cock. His teeth clenched again and his face contorted as he filled up my pussy with his juices. I slowed to a halt and just rested for a moment on his lap, each of us catching our breath. “Your pussy grasps onto my cock so hard and gets so hot when you cum, it drives me crazy!” he says as I grin and slightly blush. We head back into town, him back to work, me home to finish the laundry. The business lunch that turned into sex … I think it went well! Best business lunch ever!