I work for a well known forest product company; living in Quesnel and my secrets is that my boss cheats the company religiously. He would “borrow” 50 or 20 bucks from petty cash, lie about his expense account, manipulating time cards for some of his friends who also work in the mill, etc. He regularly lies on all kinds of operational reports to make his division look better than it actually is. I have been working there for year and half now and am very uncomfortable working for him or even in that department, but I need my job. I used to love my job when I first started, but after seeing all the unethical behavior of my boss, I am disgusted with my work. I am only 22 and I am afraid to tell his boss because my boss is friends with his boss too. If I blew the whistle on him he will know that I am the one who did it. I wish he would get caught and get fired. I am thinking of helping the auditors next year and just tell them what to look for unintentionally, I am searching the web for clues and ideas.

For the last several months I have been having an affair with someone that works at our church in Quesnel. However, the thing is I am actually from Prince George and would come to Quesnel just for the church, because that’s where I grew up and that is the church I went to since I was a kid. It started out as just some flirting and some kissing and before long we were doing it in the class rooms, choir room, just about everywhere except the sanctuary. This lady is a friend of the family and we have socialized together including my wife and her husband, our kids play together, etc. If anyone from either of our side finds out it will be devastating. We both volunteer at the church which is messed up, I get it. It’s been all about the sex, and only the sex, for me. There is nothing emotional for me there except the excitement of extramarital affair. It’s just exciting to have the extra attention and we both feel we deserve some extra attention. She had told me several times that it was all about the sex for her too. I believed her because there was no reason not to. We both have our personal lives. Her husband has been sick for the last few years and unable or unwilling to take care of business and she had some serious passion built up. My wife also has low sex drive which drives me to this kind of acts.

Then my wife calls me one day while I was at work and tells me she had lunch with our friend and that she and her husband are getting a divorce. She wants to know if things get ugly can she and her kids live in our house for a couple of weeks until she can find a place of her own.

I told her “no problem”. And now I am worried that was a bad decision on my part. I hope I am not the reason she is divorcing her husband.

My secret is that I may be divorcing my husband to be with guy I am having affair with. I have been in a relationship for over 3 years and been married with the same guy for over 7 years. My secret is that I am not feeling the love for my husband anymore.

I grew up in Mackenzie but moved to Quesnel with my husband. A friend and I had an affair a couple years ago. It was supposed to be sex only when my husband was out of town. No feelings or anything. Not long after I confessed that I was growing feelings for him. At first he wanted to keep it with no strings, and then he said he wanted me for himself and that he was growing feelings for me too. We tried to stay friends because I am still married, but lately he’s wanted me to come visit him in Prince George. He also suggested I divorce my husband and go stay with him in Prince George or move to somewhere else with him. My husband and I are on shaky grounds even after several years together. My friend has always treated me well and never made me cry. My husband goes out of his way to cause me pain. I’ve always loved them both, but I’m starting to fall out of love with my husband. My husband doesnt know any of it yet, I just pretend that everything is ok even after he treats me badly. I know I deserve better than my husband but I feel like a dirty whore somedays. I dont regret it at all though. We don’t have any children together so it may be easier to cut my losses but I don’t know if my friend will commit to me or not but I love the intimacy we have together.

I never thought I would share this secret but here I am. Thanks for the site to share secrets anonymously.

I have been in a relationship for about 3 years. Recently I found out that my boyfriend slept with another girl at a friend’s bachelor party in Quesnel. We both live in Prince George. I am 25 and he is 24. I thought he was in love with me and I thought I was in love with him. Something must have gone wrong, because little does he know, since I found out he slept with this slut, I have slept with a friend of his and also sleeping with a coworker at work for money. I am also planning on spreading my legs up to others for money. Funny thing is my sex life with him got spicier since I started to have sex with others. I don’t want him to know about my secret life but if I become a professional escort I may break up with him. I blame him for all of it.

I live in Quesnel. It’s a very small town in British Columbia. Growing up, I was always the chick that said that I would never have sex with a married man; well as of the last 2 years I have had sex with three married men one of them I am seeing in few hours. I meet people through plenty of fish and Ashley Madison. I pretend to be single but I have a boyfriend. I just love sex. I started having sex with the guy I am going to meet in few, when he and his girlfriend got engaged. It was only supposed to be a little bit of fun and it would end after they got married. It never ended. I don’t know how to end it because sex with married man is so hot and so filling. Just can’t describe it. She is now about 8 months pregnant with their first child and we are still sleeping together. Don’t think I am slut. I tried to end it but I think he is addicted to sex with me. He always begs me to hookup. He also says that I am the best lay he has ever had, way better than his wife. That is my dirty little secret.