Help! I’m in the best relationship of my life but we have little to no sex life. We are coming up on our 2 year anniversary.

We are both female & I think we are both used to being ‘the girl’ in our relationships. The only problem with this is when it comes to sex: neither of us is good at initiating/being the aggressor. We’re both used to being the one pursued. We’re both shy & insecure. We both have no history of satisfying sexual relationships in our lives. Basically we’re both novices…I tried to bring my vibrator into the bedroom one of the 1st times we were messing around & she later admitted she felt awkward about it.

We are both the types to enjoy adventurous sex so it’s just weird that we both want that yet haven’t had any

How do I fix this? I just feel kind of hopeless & clueless about the situation

Tips & advice appreciated. From anyone who knows how to bed a woman. Thanks

My secret is that I love giving blowjobs. Recently I learned to deep throat so the act of face fucking is not a problem for me, except for occasionally if I’m caught a bit by surprise! In fact I love pleasing a guy through deep throat, blowjobs, or hand job. I love hearing him moan. I also love a man taking control in this situation. I am submissive and like to be used for pleasure of a man. I get incredibly turned on when it is happening to me, especially if the man is groaning or making it obvious that he is really enjoying it. This might sound odd but I find having no control while being face-fucked or blowjob liberating.

I am a middle aged guy, in a sexless marriage, meaning a couple times a year. Wife has no sexual desire at all. I don’t blame her for that. After 14 years…it’s getting a bit frustrating. I hate masturbating…I want the real thing and I am one of those very adventuresome types…plenty of licking and sucking in every way possible…..what should I do?

Oh My GOD, I’ve sent dozens of messages to women from Plenty of Fish in Prince George and Quesnel, also went as far as California, every single one either “read deleted” or “unread deleted”. If I’m lucky I’ll get a “read” but never a reply. Some of the women blocked me for introducing myself! What is it with these women? Some of them have serious attitude problems. There is nothing wrong with guys, don’t let these idiots bring your self-esteem down. Plenty of Fish is a medium for shallow, vapid females to get their ego boosts at the expense of well-intentioned men who are genuinely looking for someone special. The “requirements” many of the brainless females on Plenty of Fish site, regardless whether they are in Canada or in the United States, have for their perfect man are often (if not always) unreasonable. Yet by the same token, most of these fat, destitute, single mother sluts expect men to accept them as they are with no complaints. Talk about hypocrisy! A man nowadays is better off budgeting to visit an escort on a semi-regular basis. Or looking for married women who are looking for no strings attached hookups. At least with a pro, you know what you are going to get and how much it will cost. Or if it is no strings attached, you don’t have to worry about her at all. It just bothers me that all of them in this plenty of fish are so undereducated, yet wants the prince charming! Come on! Be real!

I am a 23 year old girl from Surrey, and have done many things I am not proud of. One thing that always bothers me is engaging in sexual acts with my stepsister when I was 16. She is also the same age as me and as teenage hormone filled girls, we have always talked about sex, fantasies, boys and what not. We acted on many of our fantasies like acting out stuff like rape scenes, bondage, hooking up with strangers as threesome. We both masturbated and gave each other handjobs. I don’t know why we did it. I think we learned most of this stuff from her father, because he molested us both when we were kids. We had to complain at the school about it because our parents didn’t listen. Now we’re all separated and I am just starting to realize how wrong and messed-up my relationship with my stepsister was. I believe in God, and I’m afraid he will send me to hell. I worry that I won’t be forgiven, and I feel so horrible about it because the whole time we did it I knew it was wrong.