My secret is that I may be divorcing my husband to be with guy I am having affair with. I have been in a relationship for over 3 years and been married with the same guy for over 7 years. My secret is that I am not feeling the love for my husband anymore.

I grew up in Mackenzie but moved to Quesnel with my husband. A friend and I had an affair a couple years ago. It was supposed to be sex only when my husband was out of town. No feelings or anything. Not long after I confessed that I was growing feelings for him. At first he wanted to keep it with no strings, and then he said he wanted me for himself and that he was growing feelings for me too. We tried to stay friends because I am still married, but lately he’s wanted me to come visit him in Prince George. He also suggested I divorce my husband and go stay with him in Prince George or move to somewhere else with him. My husband and I are on shaky grounds even after several years together. My friend has always treated me well and never made me cry. My husband goes out of his way to cause me pain. I’ve always loved them both, but I’m starting to fall out of love with my husband. My husband doesnt know any of it yet, I just pretend that everything is ok even after he treats me badly. I know I deserve better than my husband but I feel like a dirty whore somedays. I dont regret it at all though. We don’t have any children together so it may be easier to cut my losses but I don’t know if my friend will commit to me or not but I love the intimacy we have together.

I live in London, Ontario. I have held this secret for years. I am too afraid to reveal this to my family and friends I know I will be looked down upon if I told them or worse yet they may disown me. I come from a very conservative Christian family. If I come out of the closet I will bring shame on them. The only ones that understand how I feel are the ones who are out of the closet already. Sometimes I wonder why I am like this. Why can’t I just be normal or just not be so afraid about anything? I have been living a lie and its killing me! Only my boyfriend knows that I am gay.

I am from Calgary. I have so many secrets I don’t know where to being. I have so many that I don’t think I can ever confess them all or share with you all. But the one that bugs me the most is the fact that my parents only think they know who I am … when they really don’t know me at all. My parents don’t know that I was raped, and I will probably never tell them, because they don’t need to know, it was a long time ago. They don’t know that since the rape I never can trust guys any more. They don’t know that I am secretly having an affair with a married woman. My parents don’t know that I have stolen money from them. The sad part is that I live a lie every day. My whole life is a lie…and I wish it wasn’t. It is hard once you start living a lie. You simply can’t stop it.

My secret is that I am cheating on my husband. I am 35 years old woman and have a 7 year old son from a previous marriage. I was raised in a normal environment in a fairly small town known as Prince George in British Columbia. My parents have been married for 46 years, but have had their fair share of affairs. There were many times I would never see my father because he would be gone in the morning (or still asleep) when I would go to school and then he wouldn’t come home until after we (my sisters) were in bed. He had stayed out drinking. My mother also would bring over her special friends when she thought we were sleeping. We would pretend we were sleeping but could hear her having sex down stairs with these strangers. I am the oldest of four siblings. I have been happily married to my second husband for 7 years. I am bisexual but don’t act on it, unless my husband is involved too. My husband does not have a problem with it at all. Heck, we had some amazing threesomes with the people we met from Plenty of Fish and Ashley Madison.

I met a man 3 years ago who turned my happily married world upside down. In these past 3 years, his wife and I have become best friends. We originally met on Plenty of Fish. We all go out together every weekend and have a great time. Sex is very hot because we swing together. As time went by this new guy and I became more involved. Obviously his wife and my husband do not know the he and I have our own relationship going on the side. We took a break for about a year because we both felt guilty for our partners. We were not supposed to have sex without our partners but we broke that rule. In the past 2 weeks he and I have been having cyber sex daily and it’s just a matter of time before we are going to be “together” again. The sex with my husband is far more satisfying than the sex with my lover. But sex with the lover is more thrilling and adventurous than with my husband. He says the same about his intimacy with his wife. I love my husband dearly and know that my lover is not worth risking my marriage and her friendship for, but I still do it! I enjoy it very much!

My dad passed away the other day. I did not really know him so it is like a long lost uncle who has passed away. However, I am using this to my advantage. I have taken time off work so I have several days off and I am getting paid for it. I have also told a few ladies that I know that my dad has passed away. They all of course feel bad for me. And I tell them that I really need someone to hold me; that I need to “cuddle up” with someone. And they all seem to want to help me. I have had more sex over the last few days then I have had in a long time. I know it sounds bad to be calling up several different women but really they want to be there to help me. Most women want to be that shoulder you cry on. I never thought that my dad would be great for something. He left when I was 7 and I never seen him since. I guess he was able to help me after all. I should have thought about this years ago!!