I am a girl living in Kamloops and I am a sex addict. Not only that I am also married. I had a profile on adult sites just for sex, and then it got old. Then I created a profile on Ashley Madison while I was living in Prince George, hoping to have affair with married men. It went well. After I got married, I told my husband about my sex addiction and thought he would be excited; after all he is a guy. He told me sex isn’t important in a relationship and he is not in the mode for sex with me always. He told me that he wants me to know he appreciate me for me and not for my body and I appreciate that but I am getting tired of begging him for sex. Now I am thinking of having an affair and cheating again on Ashley Madison or meeting guys from other sites for sex.

I am 27 year old female, living in Edmonton. I moved here with my husband after we got married, from Victoria. I married him against my father’s advice. He was right. I have two beautiful children with my husband but I wish he was not their father. I am stuck in a marriage with a guy who is unable to grow up, who can’t support himself much less his family, and I left all my friends and family for him. I always make excuses for him and for myself for being with him. I blame myself for this. Now I am thinking I need help to get away and leave him. I can’t afford to leave or divorce him because of my children and I can’t afford to stay because of myself. I feel like I am trapped in this relationship. My dad was right and I wish I listened to him. My dad told me he’s a looser and he is!

I have been with this man for 18 years but 12 of it as husband and wife. Now I am reflecting back on my 18 years with him and realizing almost everything about him irritates me, even how much he loves me. We left our families back in Edmonton and we moved to North Vancouver. We have nothing in common, he doesn’t pursue me as he used to, and I have closed myself up completely and am just trying to survive this marriage. We have 3 children together. I have allowed myself to become overweight because I know that if I weren’t, I would find someone and leave. I do not take care of myself because of that fear. I also do it thinking he will eventually stop loving me. But yet, he stays and he loves me as I am. I wish he would just hate me because of my weight and not taking care after anything but he still loves me. If we didn’t have kids, I’d leave regardless of how I looked or if I had a job. I’m just not happy, or attracted to him, and am tired of staying because that’s the Christian thing to do. He doesn’t handle the family’s faith, the money, the bills, the discipline, he’s not a strong type of man and it embarrasses me. Sometime I feel like I am the man in this relationship. I think he’s stupid and boring and the way he disciplines our kids makes me so angry. I have no support system in place because we left our family’s disowned us when we moved here. And so I remain quiet and hope to survive. Maybe one day I will love him again or at least have the courage to leave him and divorce to move on to something new.

I have been married to my husband for 34 years and we live in Prince Rupert. My husband decided he no longer loved me after I gained weight. I was 130 lbs. when we met and at my heaviest was 180 (I’m 5’5”). He used to call me fat and pick on me for my weight gain. It was horrible but at the same time I didn’t blame him because I was naive. I left him and he started seeing another (thinner) woman. This incident devastated me. I had a mental breakdown, developed an eating disorder and lost a lot of weight. Apparently, now he loves me again and I feel like the biggest dumb ass for coming back to him. I’m 115 now and it’s pretty obvious that I have a problem, but he could care less because at least I’m skinny. I can do better than a jerk like him. I plan to leave him again… this time for good. Hopefully, I’ll overcome my eating disorder in the process.

For a while now I am obsessed that my husband will leave me. We have been married for over 2 years now and he has never given me any reasons to feel this way. Actually on the contrary, he loves me deeply, is very caring, respectful, and all around a good man. So I have no idea where my fear comes from, other than the fact that he is totally awesome, good looking, and women flirt with him all the time. I’m on the other hand is very plain. I don’t like to put any makeup on or dress up. We live in Ontario and there are many cougar type women. So I think that one day he’ll wake up and get tired of me and leave me. I really don’t know how to get rid of this fear. I want to keep my husband and I don’t want him to divorce me or be without me even for a moment. I’m afraid he might end up noticing and realizing that he can do so much better than me.